wimmhtw* 4.14

1. It was a rough week at work, so I’m just happy I survived. I survived the week and I am still breathing. Sometimes that’s enough.

2. We went to see Shazam today, which is a very funny movie. And since it’s been out for 2-3 weeks already, and it was an earlier showing, the theater was a little empty, which was wonderful. I love going to the movies when there’s hardly anyone around.

3. As it is once again the allergy season, I’m going to say Claritin D. I love to complain about it because it is far from perfect, but the truth is I’m not sure how I would make it through spring without it.

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wimmhtw* 4.7

  1. We had an early birthday celebration for my mother today, a surprise party even, and it was good. She’s been dealing with some medical issues since last fall, so seeing her eat her favorite foods and have fun with friends and family was really great. 

 2. I got to spend yesterday hanging out with friends, with yarn and really good food, and lots of laughter. It was much needed and much appreciated.

 3. Again, I’m going to have to say Don. We’ve had him over a week now, and he is just a ball of energy, of goofiness, and of personality. He is adorable and cuddly and just as mellow as possible. He is the most amazing addition to our lives, and I am so grateful for him and for the time we get to spend with him. 


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wimmhtw* 3.31

1. Even though it snowed on Saturday morning (the ground was too warm for it to stick, thank goodness!), I feel like spring is really here. The temperatures are (mostly) up, lawns are turning green, and the sounds of birds fill the air, which make me happy also for reason #3.

2. I feel like the coldness inside me is breaking up as well. It’s been a rough nine or so months, and I feel like I buried myself deep inside my own head. But the depression is breaking up, like ice on a river, and while the anxiety is rough right now (it’s about struggling to breathe in spite of spring allergies), I feel myself more able to relax and laugh and have fun. I am very grateful for that.

3. And last, but certainly not least, is Don. My boyfriend saw Don on the website for a local animal shelter, and so we headed out last Tuesday night to meet him. We hung out with him for a while in their sun room, watching him watch the birds and play with balls. He was adorable. And Thursday night, we went back to adopt him furrever. I was worried about him on Friday because we both had to go to work, and there was a thunderstorm besides. I got home as soon as I could after work to check on him, and found him passed out on our bed upstairs, happily and comfortably sleeping through it all. We’ve had an amazing weekend with him, and I can’t wait to get to know him and his many meows better. He will never replace our Jesse, but his zest for life and for play is a beautiful reminder of how much love we still have to give.

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wimmhtw* 3.24

1. Things have been a little slower this week, so I’ve been able to get caught up on some things. I needed that. And I think it’s opening some space in my life for new opportunities. But I’m anxious about that, and I’m trying not to let my anxiety spin me out of control. It’s a struggle though, and I worry that my anxiety will keep me from taking part in these new opportunities if they pan out. So for now I’m trying to just take things one step at a time. And to breathe. Breathing is good.

2. I’ve been seeing commercials for Killing Eve season 2. Can’t wait!!

3. I did finally manage to finish my taxes, and I’ve already gotten my state refund. That made me happy.

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wimmhtw* 3.17

1. HBO’s The Case Against Adnan Syed. I listened to the first season of Serial back in the day (who didn’t? There were millions of us discovering the power of podcasts), and now that I can see faces and hear the actual voices of the case, I am fascinated by it all over again. I can’t wait to see what else the documentary uncovers.

2. Finally (and I really hope I am not jinxing this), we have had a couple of solid weeks without snow or ice. The temperatures still dip into the 30s at night, sometimes even the 20s, and the wind can still have a bitter nip to it, but we have had no ice storms, no blizzards, no polar vortices. I’m hoping we can put these behind us for this season.

3. Another hint of warmer days ahead: we went to my favorite pie shop this weekend (we missed 3.14 pi day by a couple of days, but that’s maybe for the best since they ran out that day), and I got my favorite of all the pies: peach. It’s the best of the spring/summer pies, and I’m thrilled that I have a peach pie (missing a piece or two) waiting for me in my refrigerator.

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wimmhtw* 3.10

1. I skipped this last week. There has been a lot going on, and I couldn’t deal with a computer last weekend, so I said nothing. But I was in many ways very grateful. My mother had surgery the Wednesday before last. We had known it was coming. She was getting treated for her condition for months before the surgery, to help make the surgery more successful. And it worked. Everything about the surgery was as good as it could be. Her surgeon was even able to do it laparoscopically, which we didn’t think would be possible. We were all very lucky, or blessed, depending on how you look at it, and that made me very happy. And more than a little exhausted, as many of the emotions I’d been holding in for months could finally break through. But still, happy. Happy and grateful.

2. And then a very sad thing happened. Last weekend, we lost our cat, the love of our lives. Jesse adopted my boyfriend Brad 15 years ago, and then (somewhat begrudgingly) adopted me when Brad and I started going out. I’d known cats before, but I grew up in a dog family. I’d never lived with a cat before, so I didn’t understand how very special it can be to be adopted by a cat. There are so many special moments that I will always carry with me, and his love expanded my heart in ways I will never be able to explain. I’m so sad that he’s gone, but I will always be grateful and cherish the time I got to spend with him. He will always be my first cat, and my best cat, and one of the great loves of my life.

3. It’s that time of year again—Cadbury Creme egg time. And while I love them for their own sweet tastiness, I also love them because they remind me of my grandmother. She had a sweet tooth until the end, and every Easter she had Cadbury eggs around. With the hint of warmer weather, lots of bunnies, and Cadbury eggs (and the sweet memories of my grandmother), the thought of Easter coming soon makes me very happy.

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wimmhtw* 2.24

1. 3 words. Girl Scout Cookies. I ordered a bunch of them from my cousin and went and picked them up today. I am a happy girl.

2. Taxes. I mean, I’m not saying I’m happy about taxes, but I am happy about how much easier they are now that we can do them online. It’s so much easier than having to dig through a bunch of forms and worry about postage and all. Now, it’s just a matter of clicking the right keys on the keyboard, and they’re done. I mean, mine aren’t yet, but hopefully soon. And it will be so much easier.

3. I have a boyfriend, and we have a cat. I love them both very much, but sometimes they smell. But Febreze is helping me with that. And not only have they invented an even stronger air freshener, they have also started offering a refill bottle for the fabric refresher. I think they understand how I live, and I am very grateful.

*what is making me happy this week

wimmhtw* 2.17

1. I skipped last week, all week, for the blogging because I did not feel at all good. It was partly the weather (the temperature had huge shifts, which always screws with my sinuses and doesn’t help the cat or my boyfriend, so we were all miserable), partly stress, and partly just that germarific time of year. So I took the week off. And now, the first thing that is making me happy this week is that I am feeling better. It may not last, but at least for now, for today, I am feeling better. That makes me very happy.

2. Real food. I have barely been cooking for months, but I’ve started getting back into it. Right now, there is a pot of homemade steak soup on the stove and a meatloaf in the oven. There will be good eating this week!

3. A friend suggested tonight on Facebook being pen pals, writing in real life. I do miss writing and reading real letters, and I have been looking for ways to build friendships. This seemed like the perfect solution for me. I may make the offer on the Facebook myself, to see who else of my friends are interested in giving it a shot.

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wimmhtw* 2.3

1. I have been wanting to play around with stocks a little, but just a little. It hardly seemed worth it if I had pay a $5-10 trading fee each time, so I haven’t really done much. But one of my favorite podcasts started talking about a new app/website called Robinhood. It lets you buy and sell stock with no fees. Yes, I said it. No fees. So I have started playing, and I look forward to seeing if I’m any good at it at all. I anticipate losing money, but we’ll see. At least I feel like I’m in control. If you’re interested in giving it a shot, you can click here, and we’ll both get a free stock—you just for signing up and me for referring you.

2. The weather was brutal this week, with temperatures getting down in the single digits. People north of us had it way worse, so I’m not complaining too much, but it was rough. However, there was some bounce back, with the temperature today getting back up to 63. It’s not my idea for a February day (the temperature extremes are misery to my sinuses), but at least it happened on a Sunday, when we could enjoy it. We even got to let the cat out for a little bit this afternoon, not usually something we can do in February. The temperatures are heading back down this week, mostly 30s, but that is something I can deal with. Everything in moderation, especially the weather, is all I ask for. Although I’m willing to make an exception for a winning Powerball ticket.

3. It’s the SuperBowl, and while I don’t care all that much about the score (it’s the wrong football for my tastes), it is still fun to watch the commercials. Looking forward to the next Avengers movie. Love the idea of the M&Ms candy bar. Although it may be the Bud Light/Game of Thrones mashup that wins the night. Maybe. It’s only halftime now. There is still more to come . . .

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wimmhtw* 1.27

1. We have been working hard to get things set up for this coming week. I am looking forward to a calm week. where we can hunker down at home and concentrate on relaxing and getting lots of sleep. I’m feeling the edges of bronchitis, and last week I kept hearing the woman two desks down from me and her horrendous cough. I don’t want that, so I am looking forward to a week where there is lots of soup in the kitchen and early bedtimes more nights than not.

2. There is a new season of Big Brother: Celebrity Edition, and it’s a wild mix of people—Joey Lawrence from Blossom, Jonathan Bennett from Cupcake Wars, Ryan Lochte from the stupid scandal at the Olympics, Kato Kaelin from O.J. Simpson’s guest house, Lindsay Lohan’s mom, The Mooch from Trump’s White House (briefly). We record it during the week and catch up on weekends. It’s a crazy mess, and this season is going to be so much fun! I can’t wait to see what happens next!

3. Tonight is the WWE Royal Rumble. My boyfriend is a big wrestling fan, and he’s brought me into this world, not always willingly. But the Rumble is my favorite of the pay-per-views, so for now I’m happy.

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wimmhtw* 1.20

1. Thursday night, we didn’t feel too good. Neither one of us (my boyfriend and I) were feeling great, it had been a long week, and the weather was supposed to get bad later in the week. But we went ahead with our plans and saw author Brad Meltzer on his book tour for The First Conspiracy: The Secret Plot to Kill George Washington. I am so glad that we went! He was smart and funny and inspiring, and when he signed our book he made a point of shaking our hands and using our names. I am so glad that we went! I am so glad he came to town. If you get a chance to see him in person, grab it. He’s fantastic!

2. The huge snowstorm that was supposed to hit yesterday only dropped an inch or two to clean off the cars. I love a good snowstorm, but life is complicated right now, and I don’t need the extra stress. I was grateful to have a weekend without seven inches of snow to deal with.

3. As I type this, the Chiefs are playing the Patriots to see who will be going to the SuperBowl. I am not a huge Chiefs fan. I struggle to get passionate about professional football. But it’s great to see how this team has brought the city together, and how quarterback Patrick Mahomes has brought together the team in a new and exciting way. There are four minutes left, and while I definitely want the Chiefs to win, for the moment, I’m just grateful for how far they’ve come this year and for how much fun they’ve had along the way. It’s been a great ride, even for us barely fans.

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wimmhtw* 1.13

1. We got a ton of snow again this weekend. The weather forecasters didn’t anticipate us getting as much as we did. I didn’t want as much as snow as we got, but at least it was warm out, so it was easier to clean off the car. And it forced me to stay in on Saturday and take it easy. I needed that. And it was very pretty.

2. Geico has been playing some of their older “classic” commercials, so I’ve gotten to see some of my favorites again. Like the action dude who is getting attacked by three different enemies when his mom calls to talk about the squirrels that are back in the attic (“It’s personal this time”) and to ask if he’s in a zumba class. Or the best one ever, MikeMikeMikeMikeMike, yes, it’s a camel celebrating Hump Day. I have missed that guy.

3. The new cast of Big Brother, Celebrity Edition was just announced, and it is pure absurdity. These days I totally need some brainless entertainment, and I am so happy for this. And also Lindsay Lohan’s Beach Club. Because wow. Just wow.

*what is making me happy this week

wimmhtw* 1.6

1. After an extended vacation from putting words together coherently, I am back. I can’t promise not to disappear again, as we’re not all 100% healthy again, but I am trying to do better this year. And I think stopping each week to be grateful is good for me. So the first thing making me happy this week is being back and blogging again.

2. I am very grateful that although last year I was a hot mess with the books I asked for from publishers, they haven’t completely given up on me and still let me read some books early. I am excited for a new year and a chance to get some reading caught up.

3. I have a new car, so I once again have a working radio and CD player in my car. In fact, it’s so fancy (and by fancy, I mean several years old but fancier than any car radio I’ve had before), I can use Bluetooth to listen to books from my phone’s Audible app. I feel like a master of [fairly basic] technology, and that makes me very happy.

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wimmhtw* 11.11

1. Sporting KC won today against Real Salt Lake, making us the Western Conference Champion and in the running for the MLS Cup. I am so happy for them and proud of them!

2. This is an especially difficult time for me and my family, but I am trying to focus on things I can make better. One thing that I’ve been struggling with for several months now is getting enough sleep. I have been trying to go to bed early this weekend, and it has helped. Last night I spent 12 hours in bed. I wasn’t sleeping the entire time, but I slept for a lot of it. I needed that. Sleep is important.

3. I feel very fortunate to have a fantastic boyfriend who is being super supportive during this stressful time. Also, a good friend at work stepped up for me last week when I needed a ride to work for several days. I am so grateful for these people! Also, for the guy shown below, who is purr-fect.

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wimmhtw* 10.28

1. A really good sports weekend here. The Nebraska Cornhuskers won their football game. The Chiefs won. And Sporting ended their season at the top of the western standings. It was a hellacious game against LAFC. They brought it, but even a man down we managed a 2-1 victory. It was a beautiful fight, and the perfect ending to the regular season. Go soccer!

2. Supportive friends and family. While my mother is in a rehab hospital, we had to move her from one apartment to another due to an allergic reaction she’d had. I didn’t know how we were going to get it all done and have her place ready for her when she gets out of the hospital. But thanks to many supportive friends, a super helpful apartment office, some amazing family members, and some freakishly fast furniture delivery dudes, we have pulled it off. It’s not perfect, but it’s so much better than I thought it would be at this point that I’m totally okay with what’s left. That has been such a relief to get all that taken care of.

3. The photo below and my amazing boyfriend, who shares this weird life with me. Love you!!

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wimmhtw* 10.21

1. It was a better week, but things are still tough. But it was a lot easier to come up with 3 things that are making me happy, so that right there is something big to be grateful for. My first happiness this week was good friends. Friday night we headed out to our favorite barbecue place for dinner and ran into a wacky couple that we hadn’t seen since spring. As they are some of those outdoorsy people, they spent their summer camping and fishing and hanging out with bugs, which is so not our scene. So bumping into them and enjoying a delicious meal was a lovely surprise. And then last night, we had our other wacky couple friend over for roast chicken and their tagalong-type bars. Everything was delicious, and we had so much fun. I think we all needed that. So tonight’s first thing making me happy is good friends.

2. After last night’s dinner, we settled into the too-comfy sofa and the recliner to watch some Food Network. After some reruns of Iron Chef America, we watched the reboot of the Japanese Iron Chef from several years ago that the network has only recently started running. It is so completely cheesy that it is now unmissable, from the corny interpreters to the melodrama of the stadium to the porny yummy sounds that they insisted on playing while the judges were eating. I highly recommend this show, and if you have a strong constitution, you should use it for a drinking game. Choose your favorite cornball expression and make sure you have plenty of alcohol waiting for you. It’s refreshing!

3. This afternoon, my beloved Sporting KC took on Dallas FC. The competition between them and us runs deep, with most games getting chippy almost to the point of blows being thrown. Today was no exception. The season is winding down, and they’ve been number one for several weeks heading into this game. We were number two for several weeks, sometimes tied with LAFC, but we had fallen to third for awhile. Honestly, I wasn’t sure we could win this game. Mostly I just wanted a clean-ish game, where we had no major injuries going in to the playoffs. Incredibly, my Sporting guys pulled off a 3-0 win, while Vancouver was able to tie with LAFC in their game. We are sitting at the top of the standings right now, and it feels good. Sporting has played so well this year! They brought in a lot of new talent, and they’ve been able to integrate the new with the old and create a strong team that can fight and can defend with equal skill. It has been such an amazing ride this season, and I can’t wait to see them next Sunday go against LAFC.

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wimmhtw* 10.14

1. This is a tough one. This has been a very challenging week, with each new hurdle turning into a series of hurdles for me and everyone I love. We are stressed out and exhausted, and it’s going to be a very long road. I appreciate everyone who has been so supportive recently, and for now I’m just trying to take things one day at a time.

2. Sleep. Sleep is a good thing, and I am very grateful for the hours that I get to sleep deeply and restoratively, before waking way too early to bad dreams and large to-do lists.

3. Routine, which makes it easier to keep moving forward. Knowing one small step I can take next, because it’s the same thing I’ve done the last 50 Sundays, makes it possible to take that step, and then another, and then another. It doesn’t feel like much, but when it’s all you’ve got, you grab on tight and keep a hold of it.

*what is making me happy this week

wimmhtw* 10.7

1. New episodes of Murphy Brown. I am a huge fan of Candice Bergen, so I am thrilled to have Murphy back. It would be even better to have Shirley Schmidt back, but I’ll take this for now.

2. I am very grateful for clean laundry. Our dryer stopped working last week, but yesterday we went to our favorite furniture store, Nebraska Furniture Mart, and not only were we able to get exactly the one we wanted with minimal effort, but they were ale to deliver it today. So the clothes for the week are clean, the old dryer is out of the way, and life is just a little easier again. Which is welcome, as other areas of life are not getting any easier yet.

3. Sporting KC is clinched for the MLS cup playoffs. I am so proud of my hometown team and so happy for them. They have obviously worked so hard, and it’s great to see that pay off. I’m excited for the playoffs, but I also realize that will signal the end of the season, so I hope they don’t come too soon. But when they come, I will be cheering so loud! I believe that we will win! I believe that we will win! Go Sporting!

*what is making me happy this week

wimmhtw* 9.30

1. New television season! Woot!

2. Our cat has been having issues lately. He’s been throwing up more than usual and has had some diarrhea. We took him to the vet on Saturday, which is traumatic for both cat and boyfriend, and we learned that he does have some kidney disease. But the good news is that it is treatable with a high protein food, and he can continue to live a healthy, happy life of being my master and teaching me how to serve his every need. I am very happy tat he will continue to be such a sweet, loving part of our lives.

3. September is ending. Usually, I love September. It’s my birthday month, and it’s a transition from summer to fall, which I love. The baseball season is ending, and the MLS season is getting closer to the championships. There is Husker football and sweatshirts and apple cider (and apple cider doughnuts!) and school buses. It gets darker and the sleeping is better, for the heavy blankets to snuggle under. But this September has been difficult. There has been lots of family drama, some bed bugs, a couple of hospitals, and lots of pain. I’m ready for it to end. Here’s hoping October has less drama and more candy, less pain and more laughter. But I’m grateful that we’ve made it through and can keep moving forward.

*what is making me happy this week

wimmhtw* 9.23

1. There is a trailer for the new Kevin Hart movie where he’s trying to get his GED. His night school teacher is relentless (Tiffany Haddish), and there are times that she goes against him in a boxing ring. There is one scene in particular where she asks him, “What’s the capital of Belgium?” and he answers, “Waffles?” I love that scene, and I love waffles, and I am excited that tonight for dinner, we are having waffles. And bacon. Because: bacon.

2. Rubbing alcohol in spray bottles. My mother has bed bugs. Her apartment has been treated once (the second one is Tuesday, the third one two weeks later), but an easy way to kill any bugs that survived the treatment is to spray them with alcohol. I stopped by CVS last week to pick up some rubbing alcohol, just in case I saw any bugs in the laundry of hers I brought back here or when I went to her place to pick up things she needs. CVS has been so thoughtful as to put alcohol in little spray bottles already, so they are ready to go to fight off the little buggers, or boo-boos or whatever else you’re wanting to spray alcohol on. It’s genius, and I’m so happy that they did that for me!

3. We have had some amazing servers this weekend. I am a big fan of servers. They do a tough job for little money, and when they go out of their way for me, it makes the meal so much better. Yesterday we went to a local chicken restaurant, and our server was super friendly and anticipated everything we needed. She filled our drinks quickly, brought out extra food (it’s family style) and takeout boxes at the perfect time. And she brought us a couple of extra rolls. Her enthusiasm was adorable and her professionalism was top-notch. And today, we went to our near-weekly sports bar for our pre-grocery store lunch. Now, we’ve been there enough that they know us, but it’s still really nice that they get our drinks for us as we’re sitting down and take care of us throughout the meal. It’s just so heartwarming to feel welcome and to know that people are taking good care of you. Thanks to all the servers out there! We appreciate your bringing us food and drinks!

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